Parents coaching for divorced parents

There are all sorts of relationship systems. There's the understanding that it's important for the children, But many times, one can feel there's criticism of their parenting. There's difficulty in bringing up challenges because it means you're less, and that weakens you against the other side. You are very exposed To a person from whom you're usually hurt, And it's a complex matter. How do we expose ourselves? After all, the difficulties we endured in our partnership now emerge, masked (or not masked), through the children's matters, And it's very hard to put that aside. Generally, it's even harder to manage shared parenting guidance for a couple that separated in recent years because they haven't yet learned To establish the new relationship of divorced parents. The guidance will be delivered separately and occasionally together, to align and connect between the parental place and the children, But in the process, each meeting will focus on the parental relationship of that parent with the children and the relationship systems being built there.

When a child resists spending time with one parent, I hold the belief that insistence, persuasion, and certainly coercion should be eschewed. Instead, fostering dialogue with the other parent can be encouraged, allowing the child to openly share their feelings and reasons for their reluctance. Furthermore, initiating a conversation with the child about the existing challenges can be gently proposed through a few exchanged words with the other party. However, and here lies a pivotal consideration, the current imperative is for parents to diligently cultivate and fortify their connection with their children. In this complex landscape, the task at hand is for each parent to steadfastly nurture the bonds that tie them to their children."**