What’s happening with those rage attacks?

Recently, I've been having many conversations with parents about intense crying fits or outbursts of anger in their children. I'd be happy to delve into this topic a bit more. Many kids today are what we call "sensitive children." What does that mean? Sensitive children absorb a lot of information, often more than they can process, leading to overwhelming feelings. Imagine it like a cup filled with water, and then just a few drops more are added, causing it to overflow. This overflow is expressed through tears or anger. When the parental reaction mirrors a similar pattern of anger or frustration, it means the parent is also feeling overwhelmed by the situation, and that overflow happens for them as well, creating a cycle of reaction upon reaction. So, what can we do? Try to hold within you the image of that overflowing cup and imagine that you are a bigger container for the small cup. Hold what spills over. This way, the overflow will calm down and stop. However, it's essential to remember that these moments of difficulty can also present an excellent opportunity for strengthening the parent-child bond. When your child is behaving at their worst, they might be reaching out for support and understanding from you. Being there for them, offering comfort and patience, can help calm the overflow of emotions and create a space for growth and development. It might not always be immediately apparent why your child needs you the most during their toughest moments, but seeing it as an opportunity to connect and guide them through their emotions can lead to positive outcomes in the long run. By nurturing the parent-child relationship during challenging times, you lay the foundation for better behavior and emotional maturity over time. So, while it might feel perplexing at first, remember that by being present and supportive during these moments, you are providing the guidance and love your child needs to navigate their emotions and grow into a well-adjusted individual.